Making Contact
If you wish to be considered for an appointment with Me, you must proceed in the following fashion. If you are a novice, consider carefully what you are seeking. You will need to explain to Me your dark desires, your fears and your most humiliating desires, if you wish them to be fulfilled. Honesty and trust will give us both the most satisfying sessions together, and these will increase over time as you surrender and allow yourself to be more and more dominated and controlled by Me.

You need to send me a brief courteous e-mail explaining your experience, what you feel you are seeking and any other relevant points such as health issues and limits/taboos. Use a first name and surname – I receive many e-mails and need to be able to distinguish between several people with the same name. If you are making up a name, use something unusual and easy for U/us both to remember.

All new submissives will require a consultation to discuss their current position in more detail, but start by sending me an e-mail which includes the following details – be concise as My time is precious:
  • Name
  • Photo (one medium-sized photo is sufficient – do not clog up My mail server)
  • E-mail address
  • Date of birth
  • Physical description (be truthful!)
  • Novice, intermediate or experienced
  • Brief description of previous BDSM experiences that you particularly enjoyed or despised
  • Fantasies and areas of special interests. Make a short list of things that you know you like, are willing to try, and know that you do not want to do. Don't leave anything out simply because you are ashamed or frightened. This can only stop you from fulfilling your true fantasies.
  • Equipment that you feel you need available for your sessions including toys and outfits and special equipment. Don't assume that any particular items are present in the dungeon as each Mistress' dungeon is different.

My e-mail address is mistresscarli@mistresscarli.com - make sure you have read all of this website and all of My requirements for making contact. E-mails that do not follow My instructions will be deleted.